Trust.

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Trust; the assured resting of the mind.

Have you ever thought about how many people in your life you truly trust?  Trust to always be there for you.  Trust with your secrets.  Trust with your fears.  Trust to hold you accountable.

What if you had no one?

I mentor a young man at St. Mary’s Home for  Boys and he recently wrote me a letter and in it he mentioned that I am the first person in his life that he trusts.  He’s 16.  And he represents  too many youth in our community and across the U.S. that have grown up without strong adult role models.  No one in their corner.  Not family.  Not friends.  No one.  

No discipline.  No structure.  No guidance.

They have taken an occasional wrong turn.  Wandered down a dark road and found themselves facing tough consequences.  Consequences that could have been avoided with a little love, guidance … and trust.  Trust to know that someone will be there when they call.  When they come home.  When they need advice.  When they need discipline. 

It may be strong to say that he is thriving with the trust he has placed in me … and that he knows is reciprocated … but it’s fair to say he’s on his way to thriving. 

Trust.  We take it for granted when we have it.  But we would never want to go through life without it.

Let’s put our time and trust in our youth.

http://stmaryshomeforboys.org

Risk Significance

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I will not die an unlived life.  I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire.  I choose to inhabit my days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible.  To loosen my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise.  I choose to risk my significance; to live so that which comes to me as a seed goes to the next as a blossom.”  ~Dawna Markova

Let it Be

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Thursday night the Aladdin Theater hosted the Songs for Haiti benefit concert.  The vision of Stephen Marc Beaudoin who collaborated with Aladdin owner Tom Sessa to bring this important event to life.  And that they did.  It was the most beautifully moving concert I have attended.  600 people filled the Aladdin Theater … listening to music that varied in genre from pop, classical, gospel, indie, rock … and all of it was poignant.  We sang along … we danced … we cried.  And then we gave.  It was an outpouring of generosity clearly coming straight from a desperate desire to help.  In any way we can.  All to support Mercy Corps as they focus on humanitarian needs in Haiti – clean water/sanitation, food and temporary shelter supplies … now and ongoing.

This event.  This moment.  Made a difference.

Holcombe Waller, started the evening, with an amazing version of the Beatles classic, “Let it Be” (he says it was his first time singing it and that song came straight out of his heart).

And when the night is cloudy
There is still a light that shines on me
Shine on until tomorrow, let it be

I wake up to the sound of music
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be

We pray for the light to shine on the people of Haiti.  Please let it be.

One day … hope.

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I continue to be captivated by the images of the Haiti earthquake.  This disaster that struck so far away from our community, and yet feels as though it was in our own neighborhood.  This invisible, but very palpable, thread of compassion is connecting us to the people in Haiti.  Their pain has come into our homes and we are reaching out … to hug them … to offer aid … to be there when their world has truly crumbled down around them.

The fundraising efforts, big & small, take my breath away.  The radio-thons, concerts, children donating their allowance … reaching out to people far away … people we’ve never met … without hesitation.  It is the best in the human spirit.  It is what … when the sadness, in time, begins to fade … will bring hope.  Hope.

Drops in the Bucket

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They came to watch the Portland Trail Blazers play basketball.  But when they saw the Mercy Corps volunteers … with their buckets … collecting money for the people of Haiti, basketball took a backseat for a moment.  Instead ..  men, women and children … reached into their wallets/purses/pockets and dropped change and bills into the buckets.  One after the next.  After the next.  And by the time this good deed was done, $65,000 was raised.  $65,000 that will help Mercy Corps as they focus their attention on providing vital clean water to survivors of the earthquake. 

The Blazers won the game.  But this night belonged to the fans.

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Compassion provides the basis for human survival.”  ~ the Dalai Lama

Though our spot in the world may be tiny, we have the power collectively to bring hope, to hear the cries for help and gather our families, neighbors and communities together and do what we can … do everything we can … to help the people in Haiti get through this horrific moment. 

http://mercycorps.org

http://medicalteams.org

http://redcross.org

Gratitude

Today is my birthday.  And during my quiet time tonight, I’ve been reminiscing about my loved ones … my heroes …  and the ways they’ve influenced my life, and deepened the meaning in it. 

My dad, who always says, “if you truly believe in something .. a person, project, cause … and you can help in some way, there should be no hesitation.”  My sister who is the absolute definition of nurturing.  My mom, who led by example, volunteering her time when we were children.  We saw it … we learned it … and we followed it. 

They have taught me to go through each day with my eyes and ears fully open.  Seeing more clearly.  Listening more closely.  To lend a helping hand.  To walk in someone else’s shoes.  To live compassionately. 

To risk my significance.

Gratitude.

Compassion for thought …

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We cannot deny the existence of the helpless as their presence grows.  It is impossible to insulate ourselves against what is at our very doorstep.  I don’t believe that one is born compassionate.  Compassion is not a character trait like a sunny disposition.  It must be learned, and it is learned by having adversity at our windows, coming through the gates of our yards, the walls of our towns, adversity that becomes so familiar that we begin to identify and empathize with it.”    ~ Barbara Lazear Ascher, in her essay On Compassion

A coach regifts the intangible.

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Bowling for Backpacks

I spent time recently with my friend Lionel Hollins.  Most people know Lionel as a member of the 1977 champion Portland Trail Blazers and the current head coach of the Memphis Grizzlies.  But to me, his life beyond the basketball court is where his true success lies.  Lionel is committed to making a difference in his community, and improving the lives of others.  He started “Lionel Hollins Charities” to expand the reach of his efforts … from feeding the hungry to Bowling for Backpacks, a fundraiser he hosts to raise school supplies and uniforms for less fortunate children in Memphis.    

Why? 

He certainly could be doing a lot of other things with his limited free time, but he replies with the simple answer, “That’s the way we’re supposed to be.  Receiving and giving.  Helping each to have a better life.” 

He points to a number of people who influenced him throughout his life … his parents, family, teachers, coaches, neighbors.  People that believed in him, were patient with him, and put their trust and faith in him.  And he’s regifting those intangible gifts.  To children and families in his community, and to his players.  I believe a big reason for his on-court success this season is because Lionel coaches from the inside out.   His players come to him with tremendous physical talent.  Lionel injects a heavy dose of patience, discipline, trust and respect.  Under his leadership they are becoming physically stronger, and more unified as a team.  Simple.  Selfless.  Powerful.

It really is that basic isn’t it.  If we trust and believe in others … they’ll pass it on.  Let’s test it.

www.lionelhollinscharities.org